Ab Use of Sex

It is tricky finding a proper definition of SEX. It is one of those misused and abused words like GOD and LOVE. So I shall start by suggesting that it once described the intimacy between mother and baby, the original pair bond. Somewhere along the way, the definition got hijacked, and we now live in a very sexually confused Western world, full of sexual abuse.

Sexual baby…
Sheila Kitzinger writes about pregnancy, birthing and breastfeeding as an intimate “sexual” experience. Hard to get your head round when you are trained from young to think of SEX as an adult man and woman actvity. But eventually it makes perfect sense. How could you get more intimate than mother and baby? And the intimacy is through the female “sexual” parts, womb, vagina, breasts. Nowadays, a sexual realtionship with a baby refers to the one taken over by paedophiles. The paedophile/baby has replaced the mother/baby relationship. Where has the mother gone?

Mother and Baby…
The mother baby intimacy is about being in perfect harmony, in tune, in time, in.time.mate. Your mother, your mater, is your intimate sexual mate. You grow in the womb intimately together all the time for 9 months. You birth through the sexual passage, the SEX passage which is the baby’s grand and rightful entrance into the world, the rite of passage. You are held in the arms, the new home for the baby or infant to be safe and warm and in tune against the mother’s heart and breast. And you are fed at the breast, the nutritional nurture, the life giving food. Nowadays, we have less and less of this mother baby intimacy, breast replaced with bottle, vagina replaced by surgeons knife, womb replaced by test tube, arms replaced with straps and chairs.

Craving the womb…
I would say we all crave the sanctuary of the womb, ever since we were born. Once you are out, you can’t go back in again, can you? Maybe our craving is because we do not get the after birth intimacy that we should, maybe because we are not weaned onto Mother Earth our new womb, but weaned onto Big Brother’s square world instead. The female baby can grow up to get that mother/baby intimacy again through reproducing herself, having her own new baby. The male baby grows up to crave that mother/baby intimacy again with a woman via ADULT SEX. Fantastic, a perfect fit, both male and female cravings temporarily satisfied in one adult act. Great design.

Adult sex…
Adult sex has similarities with the mother/baby sexual intimacy. The man gets to put a part of his body into the vaginal passage (going the other way to the birth, though, the wrong way), the head of the penis gets to the womb, just a little peep, not quite the 9 months of occupancy he had hoped for, and he is held in the womans arms, and gets to play with her life giving breasts, but unfortunately no milk. Not quite the real thing, but a pretty good second best. It is not quite the same for the woman. Her experience is more like being the mother than returning to the mother, her breasts stimulated as if she has a baby, her womb touched, and a shared experience of transit through her sexual passage (albeit the wrong way).

The male interloper…
We nowadays define SEX as man and woman, adult sex, the couple. Can you see how the male has replaced the baby in the most intimate pair bond? Can you see where the mother has gone? Instead of mother/baby, we have mother/father or man/woman. Now the male has the rights, rites, to the female’s body through ownership in marriage and through social norms. The male gets to sleep in the (square) bed with the mother while the baby is put in a cage (cot) in another room. The male has access to her breasts, breasts are put on display for male sexual attaction, highest priority, not for feeding the baby. The male gets the woman’s warmth, the arms, the regulating heartbeat. The vaginal passage is reserved for adult sex and the baby is taken out via caesarian. The adult male needs the womans arms and service more than the helpless baby. And that makes sure the baby grows up deprived, severed from the essential infantile mother/baby intimacy necessary for growing to a healthy adult. Perfect…

…Enter stage right Big Brother….

Baby sex…
Even the expression “baby sex” brings paedophilia to mind. Intimacy with children and babies has become a dirty thing, a horrific thing. Mothers don’t have enough intimacy with babies and children any more, and at the same time, the paedophiles spring in to the job vacancy with the Big Brother version of intimacy.

One way Vulve…
I am playing with the idea that the vaginal passage is a one way street, the vulva is a one way valve, and the correct way for sexual passage to occur is the baby way, exiting the womb. That means that all adult vaginal sex is sex abuse, misuse, going the wrong way, using the sex passage in reverse. Obviously the ridicule of virgin births helps mask this possibility, adult sex is deemed essential for breeding, so therefore heterosex must be essential and NATURAL.

But I like sex…
You can see where this is going? I am leading up to suggesting that adult heterosex is not natural. Eeeek. I know that adult sex can be pleasurable, but so is drinking cappucino. Cappucino is made from coffee, milk, and chocolate, all of which are obtained via exploitation of humans and animals. This is why people don’t want to connect up what they do with what happens remotely, or what has happened in history, because they don’t want to give up their pleasures in life, the few things that seem to make life worth living. Our Western culture reinforces this, saying it is valid to follow our desires and seek pleasure, have what we fancy just as long as we have the money to pay for it, and the true spiritual costs of this are obscured behind the scenes to make it easy peasy for us to justify.

South Exit…
Back to the one way vulva valve. The baby exits the womb via the womb’s Southern Exit. S. Exit. Sex. The sex passage to the outer world. Sex describes the southern exit of the womb, and the birth itself. The way in to the womb is South IN, SIN, and it breaks the one way valve. Maybe this is why we are said to be born from original sin, if we are created by the sinful use of the sex passage used the wrong way.

The Baby Byway…
The Baby Way to the outside world is the sex passage. The BA Byway. From B to A. The right way. The baby has rite of passage. Going from A to B is the WRONG way. Physical sex from A to B is AB use of the sex passage, ABuse, sex abuse. “Ba” is the Egyptian word for soul or spirit, the newborn soul is infused with its mother’s spirit, her life force.

Rite of Passage…
At 16, kids are suddenly allowed rite of passage, SEX. Whoopee, like being a baby again, except it’s the wrong way. They are also allowed to drink alcohol, smoke, look at porn, get married, drive etc, at certain arbitrary ages. Great set of grown up things we have in store for them. Kids know about these things much younger of course. It’s in the atmosphere and te psyche, as well as the media. How do we keep it all hidden, secret, out of reach until coming of age, rite of pass age, past the right age, and are secrets that great anyway?

Just our secret…
Paedophiles like secrets. They explain to their victims, as they groom them, about these grown up things that their mummy and daddy do, and how it must be kept secret, just like mummy and daddy keep it secret. It’s what everyone does. Secret sex, secret Santa. OK let’s get rid of the secrets shall we? Sex is no longer secret, it’s spilling out everywhere. The latest solution to control this is to teach kids about sex from a young age, explain to them they can do it when they are grown up. Sex education, sex ed, over sexed.

Lead by example…
If these adult things are so bad that we get upset by kids doing them, why are adults doing them? We set the example. Kids take drugs because they are brought up on them, parents and doctors handing out pills and calpol and ritalin and steroids to make them feel better. Adults get drunk, adults work in shops full of alcohol. Not surprisingly, kids grow up wanting to copy their leaders, the adults around them. So they get adult porn, they get drunk, they take drugs, and they want to try out sex, they know they have to at some point. The kids are trying their best to adapt to their culture. The adults get upset watching kids do these things, but have to condone it because they are doing it themselves. The adults create the culture, we are all going along with it in some way. Sex is a big part of our culture, and most adults have done it, so you can see the adult confusion in explaining or prohibiting children from doing it.

Personal Preference…
I am beginning to think that adult hetero sex is just a consumer preference like almost anything else, like drinking wine instead of beer. No more natural than any other type of sex. I always thought the homo sex act was going the WRONG way up a one way street, but if that’s what consenting adults want to do, then ok. But now I see that hetero sex seems to be the WRONG way too. Heterosex has by far the best marketing campaign behind it, which is why it is so phenomenally successful. Hetero sex is the normal accepted de facto standard, which means you are a normal accepted member of society if you prefer heterosex. Christians smugly know that hetero sex is the only version endorsed by God. We can safely assume that God is heterosexual. But the really big added marketing edge we have been sold is that heterosex is the only way to breed, and that breeding is a good thing.

Paedo Preference…
The Paedos say that choosing children as sexual partners is a “preference”, just like anything else. Whoops I am on dangerous territory here, am I agreeing with the paedos ? No not quite. There is one subtle and significant difference about the paedo preference. That is the issue of CONSENT. Children are quite rightly deemed too young to consent, and therefore all paedophilia is a crime, because there is no consent possible. OK problem solved. Shall I stop my post here? No because despite the law, paedophilia is rife and probably increasing.

Age of Consent…
The age of consent is a line in the sand, currently set at 16. Herein lies the crux of the problem. How do we agree where to set that arbitrary line? Kids themselves are being whipped up into experimenting younger, helped along by advertising, media, sex education, and in Canada, same sex kissing booths. The law itself gets very blurry when both consenting participants are “children”, the police overlook it because there is a little technical problem. Each child participant is at the same time the perpetrator of the crime and the victim. It is mathematically impossible to legislate 100%. And this little loophole serves the Agenda well. The age is being pushed downwards as more and more teens practise it younger and younger. The law will soon catch up with reality, a new lower age limit set, and noone will feel able to argue, because we are all confused.

Parental Consent…
Another little loophole. The kids can’t consent, but their parents sure can on their behalf. Sign your child to the state at birth, sign your contract with the school, sign the form that says photos can be taken of your child and the images used on the internet, sign your child over to a nursery, sign your child up to participate in “sporting activities”, to go on school trips, for emergency medical “intervention” etc etc. Most of the time, this is ok, but the loophole is there in place, to be exploited when the time and conditions are right.

A genda…
The Agenda is all about gender. Gender is sex, male or female. I think there is a Heterosexual Agenda, which started long ago, when the male member of the species was introduced, engineered, a genetic modification of the female. Males and females are not so different. Males have blanks for breasts, the penis is pretty much an inside out womb and vagina. The first step towards universal paedophilia is to sever the mother/baby sexual intimacy. The new male gender slowly displaces the baby in the most intimate relationship, leaving the baby vunerable, unprotected, looking for a new pairing. Paedos like to pick a certain type, one that has been severed from intimacy, and therefore seeks it. Once heterosex became normal and acceptable, even pleasurable for adults, ingrained into our culture and our psyche, then we became unable to stop the next major step, the transition of our culture towards accepting adult/child sex.

Engendered Species…
That’s us. We are gendered and engined. Genetically engineered to be gendered. That might be changing. Germany recently introduced a birth certificate option to register your baby as a neutral gender. No gender. Sex is another word for gender, you can be male or female, or er… neutral.

Neutralise sex…
As I now see it, there is only one foolproof way to stop paedophilia. We have to get ab use of sex out of our collective psyche. That means stop “sex” as we know it. Otherwise there is always a way in for the paedophiles. This is not just a legal loophole, it is one buried deep in our psyche that leaves us stumbling around confused when confronted with the pro paedophile debate. It is one that is picked up subliminally in the children’s psyche from a young age, as everything else is absorbed. As long as we are somehow consenting within society to sex ab use, wrong way use of sex, being a part of our culture, the rules of acceptability and normality can be adjusted to suit those with an Agenda. It reminds me of the way we continue to drive cars knowing that many thousands every year are killed and maimed on the roads. Is it worth it?

New laws…
Hey I know, let’s have a new law to stop (or fine) incorrect use of the sex passage! And a whole new team of inspectors to police it. Paedophilia is a great example of how the law is complete crap. Paedophilia is a very private crime which is why they always get away with it. As I see it, change can only be brought about by people voluntarily adjusting how they act, because they want to. Asking for new laws is a copout that says you want other people policed, it has nothing to do with you. I would prefer to think I have nothing to do with paedophilia, but I am pretty sure the VAT tax I pay on my cappucino contributes for a start, as does all other tax.

Celibacy…
Leaders of all religions are celibate. What do they know? Is this the true way of the spirit? Is sexual intercourse of any kind the original sin, the invasion of the sacred passage THE WRONG WAY? By their celibacy, they draw attention to how the fundamentals of our existence are interlinked with sex.

Just Say No to Abuse…
By saying No to Ab Use, we say No to abuse. Stop using the sex passage the wrong way. If the adults aren’t doing it, then we don’t have a rite of passage marker that says it is now ok for kids. The adult sex example paves the way for paedophilia. The adult drinking paves the way for teenage drinking. Adult driving kills kids. Are they all worth it?

Endangered species…
Suppose we stop breeding? I love my kids, and the joy of a new baby is immense. But I sometimes wonder why I chose to bring more lives into this world. Suppose the species just slowly died out, no more slaves. Then the powers that be would have a real population problem on their hands, not enough slaves. Can you see how they want us to breed? The Royals set the example. Is it in our interests to breed, or just theirs?

Lie back and think of England…
Many women don’t like sex. They do it to please, or from fear of reprisals, or to stick to the marriage contract, or to keep or control their man. The traditional arrangement is that women want to be loved or held or financed, men want sex. Sex is marketed as a package, is held up as an essential need. It is not essential, maybe not even for reproduction. Fear of pregnancy lets in Big Pharma with rubbers, metal coils and chemicals introduced into the sacred female sexual space. The farmer wants a wife, the wife wants a child, the rhyme goes. Trained by rhymes, by fairy tales, by Santa and God imagery, the men in the sky. Santa comes into your womb, your inner room, at night, with presents of seeds and material toys for you, lie back and think of England, feel his presence, be good for Santa, be good for God.

wikipedia…
…says sexual intercourse is “usually used” for pleasure and strengthens social bonds. That means the society that they rule, the control net that we are tied into, bonded to. The most intimate bond is the one established by intimacy with your mother which sets you up for life, the one they are breaking and replacing. Replacing with pleasurable sexual intercourse. See how wikipedia is emphasising the heterosex pair and forgetting the mother/baby pair? See how wikipedia is replacing the breeding purpose with pleasure, the final mother/baby severance will be when women are not needed to breed, and labs take over.

Keep it up…
We are encouraged to keep up with the sex, a “healthy sex life”. Any lack of interest in sex, get help, buy a manual to spice up your sex life, otherwise there is something wrong with you. Saying NO to sex is not really allowed, which is maybe why rape victims are so often deemed to be saying YES. You know you want it really. Doctors ask if you are sexually active, they collect data on it too. Keep it up, keep it up, nearly there, the paedos have nearly won, sex ab use will rule the world.

Recreational sex…
Sex is rapidly becoming a sport, almost merging with the physical education department at school. Sex is physical, so sex education is physical education, yes? Sport gives you a quick high, is competitive and keeps you fit, essentials for modern living. Recreation grounds are for sport. Re Creation. The creation aspect of sex is being phased out. Now that pleasure and leisure and sport (and the Roman romance) have taken over the sex marketing policy, we don’t need the procreation reason any more, it served its purpose and is now defunct.

Venous Valves…
Veins have valves too, like the vulva. Maybe the vulva is the Venus Valve? Venus is the God of Love. Varicose veins occur in the legs when the venous valves malfunction, when the blood flows back the WRONG WAY. The one way valve becomes a two way valve. Varicose vains seem to echo the ab use of the vulva one way valve. I have varicose veins, and it is quite common that they start in pregnancy as mine did, the time when I was intimate with my baby. The doctors know very little about them, preferring to rip them out to solve it. I feel like I have finally solved it my way. To me, varicose veins, Venous veins, is the body displaying the ills of society. It is an outward display of the Venus Valve vulva being misused, abused. Coincidentally, “venal” means to betray your values (valves?) for a price, a deal with the devil. I think we have done some sort of deal with the devil, and we need to walk away from that deal. “Venereal disease” means sexually transmitted disease. To venerate is to revere, not reverse. Venereal disease arises from the ab use of sex, the reverse use of the sex passage, Venus has got diseased. Maybe we need to venerate the sacred Venus space in order to heal the ills of our sexual world. Heal Venus, heal love.

Acceptance…
I refuse to accept that paedophilia is an inevitable part of our world, the attitude that says tough luck if you are a victim, get used to it, or here is a charity to help you when you escape your abuser. I cannot turn a blind eye and pretend it is not there either. Hence my quest to probe into strange territory. Children are being abused behind the glossy scenes, as I write. It didn’t happen overnight, it didn’t start with the BBC. So where did it start? How can we stop it, if we don’t know how it started and where it’s going? It seems they have taken their time to introduce their new gender, their agenda, to groom the whole population over centuries, slowly and stealthily, just as paedos take their time to groom their victims. The reason is they want consent. They want us all twisted up with confusion of the real issues so that we don’t know how to say No. And I am suggesting that saying Yes to Hetero Adult sex is part of the Big Yes to Ab Use of Sex, and therefore contracts your inner self into confused consent in support of the paedophilia programme.

(See also: Popule Copule, The Paedophile Agenda, The Homosexual Agenda, Wombless Women, Sheela Negative, Centre For Exploiting Missing Children, Normalising Paedophilia, Jesus the Jewess, Pavlovs Women, Holy See over Bath, Through the Wombhole, Santa and the Snowmen, Monasteries and Mothers, The Eyes and The Nose, Be Positive, Population Problem, Go Back, Program Me, Cow Machine, By Consent, Unfair Trade, Is it Worth It, Karma Acceptance)

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4 Responses to Ab Use of Sex

  1. Your postings make such good sense.

    As a long retired primary teacher and headteacher, I have been filled with misgivings about the amount of sexual emphasis that seems to be placed in all aspects of modern entertainment, whether for adults or children.

    I am horrified to see young girls of about eight years, tarted up in outfits designed to portray them as versions of Lolita, walking alongside an older sister who may be no more than fourteen, but looks twenty, and their mother who appears to be unaware of the impression that she and her children are presenting.

    With so much emphasis on turning children into promiscuous individuals before they are capable of forming adult judgments about what they are doing, I could wish they might know what it is to experience the real joys of childhood before they start experimenting with the turbulence of sexual relationships.

    You are right to draw attention to the clumsy compulsory teaching of sex in primary schools, and the decision to present the whole thing in cartoon form; it immediately denigrates sex to the level of pornographic comic strips, as well as encouraging children to experiment upon themselves and with each other when some of them may already have experienced sexual abuse within their homes.

    Children will experiment, and it is for this reason that greater care should be exercised in encouraging and nurturing a more wholesome approach to the awakening sexual instincts present in every human being. Sexual reproduction is a normal part of our natural lives as living creatures, but it need not become an obsession.

    What happens between a male and female in film and television screens, in what should be the privacy of their bedroom, has degenerated into an exhibition of frenzied striptease while apparently devouring the mouth and body parts of the partner and causes me to reach for the remote switch so I can switch off or change the programme.

    Some bestselling authors are guilty of slipping sexually explicit scenes into their books too, but at least they will not be read by primary school children, unless they have an extraordinary reading ability. I admit to finding theses sexual fantasies do little to impress me with the author’s ability to tell a story, so I never pick up, read or buy another of their books.

    Thank you for some very stimulating postings.

    • suliwebster says:

      Thanks for your feedback, Maureen. Glad you are getting insights from my posts, I nearly didn’t publish this one because I thought it was too over the top! But the only way to find out new ways to do things is to risk exploring new avenues.
      Working in schools is very insightful, and you can almost see why the government set them up. They can monitor how society is developing by observing the kids. School staff have a very good idea of what goes on in kids families, don’t they? This information is increasingly getting documented online.
      I haven’t had a tele for most of my adult life, and my parents did not get a tele til I was 6. When I do see one, I am shocked at the increase in sex and violence since the previous time I saw one. It is almost unfashionable, despised, to speak out against it, but I think more and more people are finding it uncomfortable, and welcome anyone who feels the same.

  2. darren deojee discusses the interesting misuse of “Mrs” as it is missing an apostrophe “Mr’s” being the property of the “Mr”

    [plus lots of other “word magic”]
    not sure where it is in this video, it’s been a while since I’ve seen it, sorry

    • suliwebster says:

      I knew there was something odd about the word Mrs, just never worked out what ! Thanks dnb. Maybe the word Miss gives the clue, the Miss’ing apostrophe.

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